I can't believe it's March--the end of March no less! I haven't blogged so much in the past before now because I think I was waiting for some kind of culture shock, but one never came; however, looking back on it all, I have learned from another culture, no doubt about it. It wasn't one big main event of a culture shock...but more of a gradual realization.
At first, arriving at CMRS in Oxford, I was a bit disappointed. (This only lasted a little bit!!) Living dorm style, with 20 some other American students, it was very much an American bubble, and I began to wish I had picked another country and program where I would have been living in a family's home where they spoke a different language.
I now realize, however, that despite living in the little American bubble...there are plenty of opportunities to get out there and really observe, learn and appreciate the British ways. I'm also thankful that I made an effort to get out on my own, without a group of other Americans, to get the best experience. Of course, making new friends here is a huge part of my experience here, but I also have gained from not being connected to the hip to a group. I think studying abroad should be an opportunity to take time for yourself, really think about things and be a little more
independent. Simply taking a walk in Christ Church Meadows early in the morning can be rewarding. I'll never forget when I helped a little old lady cross the street at Abington Road. I've also enjoyed going to a couple of netball practices with the girls from St. Peter's College.
So, that's my little bit of wisdom...wherever you go, take some time for yourself. Don't get stuck in an American bubble.
Another qualm I had at first was how the amount of work and studying I had to do for tutorials and seminar was taking away from time I could have spent traveling more and getting to know the culture. I thought of study abroad experiences other students have had when it sounded like all the did was travel around Europe without a care in the world, and classes were a piece of cake. But really, studying and academics IS the culture of Oxford! On Friday nights when I was with my laptop and books, not going out to the pubs, I told myself this is what I came here for, and I can go out anytime anywhere to bars in the states....but this is the only time I have to study in OXFORD...where so many occurrences and people have been on High Street and Cornmarket, in the Bodleian. Connections to something famous are everywhere. One of these amazing connections has to do with C.S Lewis: Not only is the pub, Eagle and Child, where parts of J.R.R Tolken's and Lewis's works were first read out loud, right on Saint Giles Street (a 10 minute walk from St. Michael's Hall), BUT, also, my tutor, Dr. Lurcock, who I had for Jane Austen; his tutor's tutor was C.S Lewis!! So, I am now like the great grandchild/student of C.S. Lewis!! So, even though I wasn't blessed with easy classes and time to bop about about Europe, I've learned and studied in exceptional place from exceptional people. priceless.
I've learned so much here from my tutors and professors and I'll be able to refer to and go back to it all again and again (at this point, after my Jane Austen tutorial, I seem to find an Austen connection in the craziest ways).
Some other favorite things about my time here is that there's flowers in February! The weather although at times is gloomy, is still milder, and it's just impossible to be down in the dumps when you see daffodils everywhere. Also, I'm going to miss the chip/kabob stands (chips=french fries). On nights when dinner is particularly mysterious, the chip stands are always there...all night.
I've also cought on to the whole Americans are loud stereotype. We are! I've noticed tour around different places that the Americans are always noticeable in a crowd.
I'm quite torn about going home so soon. It will be nice to get back to better food, Target, a car and my friends and family (not in the order of course), but I'm going to miss Oxford a lot. It's such a beautiful little city and I've learned and grown so much here. Nothing back home in the states is like it.
cheers!